This is so neat. They converted the top of this clock tower overlooking the harbor in New York into a $25 million 6,000 sq. ft. penthouse. Take a look!
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As I was babysitting Topher today while Courtney taught her piano lesson and Jesse and Michael picked up a couch and entertainment center that the Unruhs had bought, I began reading a new book of hers, titled, The Home Experience.
I came across the section, titled, “Personality Dynamics”, where you decide whether you are a D, I S, or C. After reading them through, I decided that I was probably a C. As I continued reading however, the “probably” part of that equation was blown out of the water. What I was reading WAS ME, as though someone had sat down and observed me for 23 years!
Later this evening, as we were all sitting around eating baked beans and cornbread, I read to everyone all that I had found out about “The C”. Jesse accidentally spit out his food a couple times, he was laughing so hard, and said that I had to post this on my blog.
So here it is. What do you think? Is this me?
Elements of A C: Task focused, deliberate paced, creative, serious, analytical, sensitive, scheduled, high standards, artistic/musical
The cautious C fears being personally criticized or that their work or performance will come under attack. The C may withdraw or become defensive, detailed or questioning. This temperament is very sensitive and can be easily hurt by a comment that was never intended to offend. The C takes pride in doing the job right. This tendency to want things absolutely correct- sometimes by self-imposed standards- can drive them to perfectionism. This behavior can also lead to conflict in relationships as the C may attempt to impose unrealistic standards on others.
Responses to Conflict: Initially, the C will be moody, defensive, and withdrawn. If pressure continues, however, the C will become aggressive, demanding, and exaggerate criticism.
Relating to the C:
As an Adult: Slow your pace, allowing time for thinking and detailed processing. Don’t be critical. Remember that the C feels things very deeply. Avoid springing things on them. They like a controlled, predictable environment. Bear in mind that they require time alone or time to work on a project to refuel. Give details and factual data to help them process information. Afford them adequate time, but provide a deadline for action or decision.
As a Child: Don’t over react to criticisms spoken by a C. Gently guide the child into a healthy acceptance of the shortcomings of others. This child is deliberate and needs time to think before making decisions. Be patient, answering detailed questions to help process information and get the facts. Correct gently, since C’s greatest fear is criticism. Recognize that the child likes working on a project andis detail oriented. Train against self-criticism and perfectionism. Remind the child of the positive things from his day. One negative incident can cause the C to feel that the whole day (or, as Jesse added, “Marriage”!) was horrible.
Shhh!
These pictures brighten my day. Don’t ask me where I find all of these. I have many secret blogs 😉
TOO CUTE!
I think I’ve just found the crib bedding that makes me want to be a mom.
I know, right?
The very fact that I’m saying this TOTALLY means I’m not ready to be a mom! Don’t worry, I’m there with you!
But it exists. It doesn’t just exist, it totally HIT ME IN THE FACE exists!
This set isn’t even available until Fall of 2009 on a site called Dwell Shop. But I saw a sneak preview of it on one of my favorite sites, Ohdeeoh.
Alright. I must stop looking at these. Who knows, I could start talking about procreation again. And that would just make my dad uncomfortable.